7 Things I Learned About Work and Life After Years of Hating Sports

5 Sep

Approximately 27 million.

That’s how many people are playing fantasy football.

And so it begins…

Football season.

Here’s something you should know about me:

For years and years and years, I HATED sports.

I mean, really, I detested them.

Perhaps it was because one of my ex boyfriends left me after high school to go play basketball.

Or, maybe it has something to do with the fact that I can’t understand how athletes make bazillions of dollars and teachers make pennies.

Maybe it’s always been a little bit of both.

Regardless, every year as all of my friends indulge in the craziness surrounding their favorite sports teams, I’ve always sat around watching everyone drink beer, kind of scratching my head, wondering what the big fuss is about.

I just never understood.

But as I entered the workforce, I began to see parallels between the world of sports and organizational structure.

So here’s why I can now say that I LIKE sports.

I don’t LOVE them yet, but I like them.

Because through sports, we learn lessons about life and work, and they’re important.

1. Sports teach us about competition

Competition is the key to success and ensures that we continue striving for excellence. No team likes to lose. They don’t. Therefore, in order to win, they have to play their best. Whether you’re competing for a spot at an Ivy League school or for that kick ass job you applied for, if you want to win, you have to be better than your competition. Same applies to any company. You want business? You want clients? Then you need to be better than your competitors. You need to be committed to learning and growing and perfecting your skills so that your competition doesn’t even stand a chance.

2. Sports remind us of the importance of succession plans

There are always going to be stars. We’ve got Lebron James and well…I don’t know that many sports players other than Tim Tebow and…um…okay…Dan Marino and…um…all the Alabama football players that my boyfriend’s always talking about, but the point is that while they’re on the team, the team dominates. The team does well. They win their trophies. Everybody cheers. Everyone is happy. But what happens when these star players no longer play? What happens when they get hurt or they retire or they go play for another team? More often than not, the team’s performance suffers.

Just like sports teams recruit new players by watching college games, eyeing prospective future players, companies should be doing the same, recruiting talent for the future. That way, when their current stars no longer work for them, they’ll have great new talent and their team’s performance won’t suffer.

3. Sports show us that if you put in work, you get results 

It’s not that complicated. If you work hard, you’ll see results. If you’re out practicing on the field, more often than not, you’re going to perform a lot better than that player that never attends practice and thinks that he can just show up the day of the game and be awesome. Nothing in life that’s good comes easily. I don’t care how corny that sounds. It’s true. If you put in effort, if you dedicate yourself to continuous improvement, you will ALWAYS be better off than you were before. Be it your job, your relationship, those six pack abs that you’re dying to have, if you want to achieve great results, you need to put in the time and energy. Great companies understand this and know that to achieve success, they need to have employees that are committed to nothing less than that and therefore, they facilitate an environment that encourages continuous learning and improvement.

4. Sports create team players 

There’s no I in team…blah…blah…blah…you’ve heard it a million times. But it’s as true for an organization as it is for any sports team. Organizations need to have teams that work well together and know how to play on each other’s strengths in order to win.

5. Sports give us a sense of hope and are a source of inspiration

There are a lot of bad things going on in the world, a lot of unfair things happening on a daily basis. But it’s nice that for a few short hours, while people sit in front of the t.v. shotgunning beers, people have something else to think about. We love to root for the underdog. We watch sports movies about the team that never could have won, but did. They remind us that regardless of how bad a situation is, things can be better. That if we believe that we can do things, we can surprise ourselves and everyone else with how far we get. People want to be inspired. They want to have something to believe in. We want to know that even if our team went 0 and 500 last year, with the right coaching, the right players, and the right attitude, we can turn it around and go undefeated. Sports do that for us, and I love that.

6. Sports create for us a sense of belonging

People want to belong to something. People want to be a part of something much bigger than themselves. 22 year old Marina Keegan, a Yale student,  wrote a beautiful essay about just this, right before she died in a tragic accident. Here she writes as she dwells upon graduation:

Yale is full of tiny circles we pull around ourselves. A cappella groups, sports teams, houses, societies, clubs. These tiny groups that make us feel loved and safe and part of something even on our loneliest nights when we stumble home to our computers — partner-less, tired, awake. We won’t have those next year. We won’t live on the same block as all our friends. We won’t have a bunch of group-texts.

This scares me. More than finding the right job or city or spouse – I’m scared of losing this web we’re in. This elusive, indefinable, opposite of loneliness. This feeling I feel right now.

We want to belong to something. Especially us Millennials, just entering the workforce, who have just been ripped apart, as Keegan says, from all the “tiny circles we pull around ourselves.” Those circles define us. They’re how we define ourselves. When we cheer for a particular team, we belong to that group of people who cheer for them as well. And just like that, we belong to something. We’re Dolphins fans…we’re Patriots fans…we’re Auburn fans (just kidding, babe). We cheer together. We cry together. We throw the remote control at the t.v. when we’re down together.

For that same reason, companies need to focus on building their brand and cultivating a positive culture within their organization. They should want their employees to feel that they belong to something much bigger. They should want their employees to feel that they’re part of the team. That way, they cheer when the organization is doing well and they work harder than ever when they’re down because their goal is to see their team win. Because they don’t want to belong to something that loses.

7. If nothing else, sports give us something to talk about at work 

Yes. It’s true.

So there you have it. Those are seven reasons why I can no longer say that I hate sports.

I’m sure there are other reasons, like this…

There. I officially LOVE sports. I said it. Thank you, Mr. Beckham.

And so that my man doesn’t kill me, ROLL TIDE, everyone!

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11 Responses to “7 Things I Learned About Work and Life After Years of Hating Sports”

  1. TheThinkingLdr September 5, 2012 at 12:51 pm #

    Great stuff Kayla. Your thoughts are very insightful but even more real. Your readers appreciate it.

    Oh, and Roll Tide!

    • Kayla Cruz September 12, 2012 at 1:56 am #

      Thanks so much!! Glad you liked :D Roll Tide Roll!

  2. Samantha Hartley September 5, 2012 at 1:56 pm #

    Great post Kayla! Although I’m not a hockey or football fan, I have played soccer, baseball and volleyball since I was knee high and agree 100% sports have benefited my education and career. Though, there’s one thing I feel needs to be stressed when sports players or non-sports fans exercise sportsmanship in the workplace.
    Instead of working like a team, some players feel the need to be competitive among their colleagues in order to climb to the top. I truly believe if they build a support network, they can achieve the same success and celebrate along the way without hurting relationships and their reputation.
    Then there’s the sense of belonging. I worked with a team of seven people and four of them were athletes, and I was far from feeling belonged. It was believed “every man/woman for themselves.” I can say this without sharing specific facts that we could have been a more successful team if we worked together and respected everyone’s involvement. It’s important to remember your team was hired because they’re smart, successful and talented. One amazing person can do amazing things, but two or three, or more amazing people can change the world.
    And lastly, there’s the coach or team leader, in this case the manager. I wanted to share a blog post I wrote about this. I feel it’s a great tie-in to your point about “There no I in team” – literally! http://samanthahartley.ca/2012/04/05/theres-no-i-in-team/
    Thanks again Kayla for a great read!

    • Kayla Cruz September 12, 2012 at 1:59 am #

      Samantha,

      Thanks so much for reading and for taking the time to respond. Wow, seems like you were quite the athlete! Absolutely, I completely agree. Competition is good but not when it’s destructive and when people aren’t working like a team. Great post on your site! Thank you for sharing. :D

  3. Tina Del Buono, PMAC September 5, 2012 at 10:29 pm #

    I really enjoyed you post Kayla, have a good evening!

    • Kayla Cruz September 12, 2012 at 1:59 am #

      Thanks Tina! Know that I really appreciate all your support :)

  4. Kate Swaffer September 9, 2012 at 11:23 pm #

    As always, a great blog. Your insight is wonderful, and it is even better that you share it here. Stay happy, and keep thinking deeply!

    • Kayla Cruz September 12, 2012 at 2:00 am #

      Thanks Kate!! I’m glad you think so! No worries, I don’t intend on stopping anytime soon :)

  5. kmpoffenroth September 10, 2012 at 11:11 pm #

    I’ve always had trouble with sports, too. You hit the nail on the head with the athletes vs teachers pay difference comment. I also think it had to do with my complete lack of athletic ability. I still have absolutely zero hand-eye coordination, but luckily I have finally found a sport I can play without making a total fool of myself. Since I have started playing roller derby (my sport of choice!), I have gained a much greater appreciation for the amount of skill it takes to play other sports and I have definitely learned a lot of things that I can use while working. Most of my job interview answers have a lot to do with roller derby, since I don’t have much work experience to talk about.
    Also, thanks for the follow!

    • Kayla Cruz September 12, 2012 at 2:01 am #

      Roller derby…well that’s interesting! Hey, as long as you can find a way to relate it to your questions, it’s all good! Anytime and I hope you’ll come back from time to time to see what’s new :)

  6. hughcurtler September 12, 2012 at 11:40 am #

    Great blog! I appreciate the way you keep your mind open — while so many around you seem to have them closed!

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